For the full context of this post read 1 Peter 2:4 - 5:10.
In the late 80’s or early years of the 90’s a youth leader in Marlton, New Jersey threw a Peculiar People Party. This youth event stands out in my memory as if it happened last week. Some might argue that the reason I remember the party is because I have a mind for remembering useless details. Others might suggest that the clashing neon colors which went along with the party could leave a lasting memory for everyone. The reason I remember the party was because of the message that was spoken. The party was themed from I Peter 2:9.
9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvelous light (1 Peter 2:9).
God has made me peculiar. I don't quite understand why, but I have always struggled to believe that I fit in. I remember hearing this verse at the peculiar people party and being relieved. For the first time in my life I realized I wasn’t supposed to belong. Since that party, I have used this verse to comfort myself in my deepest moments of not fitting in. God’s made me peculiar! I’m not supposed to fit in.
God has given me a little bit of quirkiness, a few oddities, and a lot of spunk! These are not the peculiarities which Peter wrote to believers about. The peculiarities which Peter wrote to believers about were in regards to making life choices which appear peculiar to others. Peter urged believers to abstain from sinful and lustful desires. He encouraged believers to submit to one another; we should submit to government, those we work for, our elders, and those we love. We are to show love, abstain from all types of wild living, and in some instances suffer insult for the sake of Christ. Peter suggested that believers could live such peculiar lives that our good deeds would glorify God.
Peculiarity is not normal. It’s hard to live as a peculiar person. Peculiar people don’t always fit in, but they always stand out. It is my prayer that our lives become like a 1980’s peculiar people party. I pray that we would be remembered not for clashing neon colors, but because in our peculiarity our good deeds glorify God.
I love everything about this, and can most definitely relate. This is something I still need to remind myself of, while also instilling this into my children! I will be sharing this post with them today, thank you!!
According to my profile statistics I am peculiar, I don’t fit in and additionally I “could” be intimidating. As much as I’ve tried to change I’m never comfortable until I’m vulnerable and authentic. This word is validating and challenging. I am who I am for the glory of God!
This resonated so deeply this morning. Thank you Kym!!
I read this with greatfulness in my heart for all the volunteers who work with children and youth in churches. At times those jobs seem thankless and filled with frustration wondering if they’re making a difference. Now looking back with thankfulness in your heart for that night, time is revealing the fruit of seeds planted and watered. For all those who serve, in whatever capacity...don’t stop.
Home run Kym....I just had a conversation w Bruce the other day about feeling more and more detached...... (siblings)......when I was younger it would have been devastating to not “fit” in......but I am secure by the fact that I am Gods kid and I do belong to HIM. This fact does not at times waver when I want to be in the ”group”.....but I have to ask myself.....what do I have to give up of myself to join......I would not be worth the entrance fee......
thanks for the reminder.......